So what is the next step

I am writing this because of an urge to put my thoughts down on "paper". Why? Well I am single for the first time in years. How many years? Not sure... don't want to think about it... suffice it to say, more than 10.

So like the title says, what is the next step. I am out of practice in this being single thing. I started writing down why I am better of without him. Then I got carried away and ended up here.